The Guru - the following points can helps you

 The Guru-  the  following  points   can  helps  you

“Guru” the most  divine  and  most  holy  word ever exists. so many definition about it,we  all know already, that various  others  that are  hard  to  define.In  any  future post,  we  will have  discussion on this  most  divine  word.  Here in this  post  I will  discuss   some  points  that  will help  you   to  choose a  guru  on the path.

This  has  been  very  clear in  Indian  way  of life  that   its the guru,  who  choose a  disciple, disciple  cannot choose a  guru that is   true.  When the times comes, when  divine  mother  blesses  than a   person  will  have/find  a  guru. How  and  when,  what are  the pre condition and  many other  related things  we  will  discuss in future post.

  Here in worldly  sense, for  a ordinary  person like  us, who  wishes  to tread  in the path divine  and  if till  date not already blessed  to have  a guru  or the  time  has not  come   and still we  decided  to   have   a guru   so that   we  will be able  to move  in the path.

Who  knows when such a  desired  yogyta/ability comes  than we  will   have  opportunities   comes  to   meet a  the  guru. but  till that  not arrived yet, what  we  do, generally read   about   some  great  one  from  this  or that sources and  moved to them and  ask  to    accept  us  as  a  disciple.

Here  some  point  that may be  helpful  for a ordinary person like  us, I am discussing, may be  that  will help  you.  Hoping  so.

“guru keje  jaankar   aur pani pive  chhankar”  roughly meaning is  that   chose a  guru  considering all  the  facts  and  drink  water   only  when it   is  free  from impuritirs.

1.Choose  that  great  soul as a  guru, who has  time  to meet  you in  person with ease, not only once  but  whenever  you  have  any difficulty  or  problem arise, when you are  not  in   position to handle  yourself  and  that  probs  put  you  in  position that becomes  a  question  of life  and  death  for  you.

2. If  your  would  be  divine  guru has a  very  huge   following than  you  can  understand  meeting him in person many  times, is out  of  question. Ask  yourself  why you  wanted  to became  his  disciple,  just  because  your  family member or  anyone  who  is  very near to  you  already   a  disciple  of that great one.  In long run  that  will not  serve  the  purpose.

3.If  you  want to have  just  blessing  than  your  earthly  mother  always  bless  you,why not choose her   as a guru, why  not  ask  for her  blessing, after all  our  mother  also  consider as our  first  guru.

4.If  you  desire to learn some great divine science or  some  divine  process Than    thoroughly you  should have  information about your  would  be  guru that whether he  has  having  first hand  direct  knowledge  of that  subject  specially  practical aspect side,  I  should  say  he  should also  be  a   great sadhak  so that  he  could  be  able   to guide  you very accurately, efficiently  in any  practical  difficulty arise  in learning that  divine  science.

5.Before  taking  diksha  or  initiation  from him,  gather  as much  as  information  about him that  will help  you  otherwise after taking  diksha  if  you   have  some  doubt   about him   than this   condition is  not  welcoming.

6.At least you  should have  opportunities  to talk  to  him regarding  your  sadhanatmak   queries  and  confusion   though  any communication means like mobile  etc with ease , if  you  are  not living  very near  to him. since  we  are  not   like  eklavya,  that is  why always  our mind wonderer about  so many doubt.  And  till that  doubt   clear  how  a  person  can  proceed  on this  path divine.

7.Having  a  highly  accomplished  divine  yogi  to be your  guru a  highly  blissful  things  but  if  you  are  not able   to be guided  him  by  personally or not  having  opportunities   to meet him  person   as  and  when   the  real need  arise or no  direct  communication  between you  and  him possible  than  think  twice,  what  purpose  will be  solved.

8.Taking  diksha  just  for  blessing  than  any  accomplished  soul   will   be considered ok  but   if  you   really  keen to  learn the  divine  science  whether  that  may be  mantra, tantra sadhana  secreats  or   any other  sadhana   like  sury vigyan , Chandra  vigyan,  kshan vigyan  or  vaayu vigyan , like that   than  think  about …..are  you  really  moving   in the  right  direction? do  you really have  chance  to learn  that science  directly  from   him? Take  decision  after  wise  thinking.

9.Now  a days  its  almost very very hard   to find  a  divine  one,  who   really  understand  the  meaning  of  being a  true   guru  and  acts  according  to   that. if  he  is  really a true guru, than  we  calls  him  greater  that  bhagvaan  brahma, bhagvaan  Vishnu and  bhagvaan   Mahesh, who  is  really    a living  parbhrahm. though many   are claiming that they  are that, and many  times their  disciple  claiming about  their  guru   such a  things.  But  before  taking  diksha,  you should  be  very very careful. Since     that is  not a  small incident event   but  if  you  know  the   outcome,  whole   you  life  will transform.

10.if  possible  while  choosing  a  divine  one  as a  guru,  if  you  have  opportunities  to discuss this  with  your  mother, father or  some  elder one  or  with  your  spouse  that  would  be  much  wise  things.  If  outcome  of this,  comes positively than   whenever  you  are taking your  gurus name  or  wanted  to  visit  his home  or   you are  fortunate that  he  may ever  visit  your  home  you  do not have   to  worry  about behavior/reaction/support  of  other  member  of the  family.

11.choose  that  divine  one  who  not  only through words  but really   behaves  like  your  spiritual father  and  treat  every   disciples of  him equal and   as    more  dearer  to him   compare  to his  earthly   son/daughter.

12.whenever  any question arise  that  seek the  guidance  from your  guru  compare  to any other  guru brother.

13.  having faith  in the  guru  does not mean  that   you  should  consider  any other   guru brothers  talk/suggestion   equal  to  your  own  guru, just have   respect  to  elders  brother  and  younger  one. every suggestion  made  by  any senior  one  should  be listen  very patiently and   have   thinking  very wisely    if that,   view  seems   right than  think  about  to  follow  otherwise think  twice  and  set aside  that suggestion.

14.your  would  be  divine  one  should  be  a man  of character  and  having high regards/standards  towards  moral and   other positive  values  of the  society  and  law.

15.its  being said  that   you must  have   to  follow   the  instruction   given by  your  guru. but  in today’s  time  you know, in the  reality its  very hard  to find a divine  one  who can be  considered a as  true  guru,  finding them  is  almost very difficult. so  until  you  are  100  percent sure  about your  guru  than   do   as  you are  being instructed. But  if  instruction contains  something  that is  not  considered  right as per  moral  and legal view of  law and  society   than before  doing that   think  twice.

16.that divine  one  should  not be  one  who is  always  asking  you  to give/donate money  sometimes  through this   cause  or that cause. if any  situation arise  than  very carefully  understand  the  reason  behind  that   and   move  slowly not  blindly. otherwise  if  something  went  wrong  than    its  very hard  to  recover  from that .

17.  do not  become  a  fool  while  moving  on the path divine,   the  fools  are  not  liked  by us  so how  can a  divine   one  liked them.  its  the  god  who  has  given  you  a  mind   so use   it on appropriate  place. One  who know  where  to use  his  mind  and  where  to   follow his  heart is  a  man  who can have  success. Blindly  following  can  sometimes   lead   you  in great  danger.

18.untill  you  attain a   higher   spiritual  level ,  you  should   not left  your   self  in the  mercy  of  any  danger  situation.

19.do not  just  literally  following the  stories of  some  great  divine  one  or  great disciple, always   think  that   the crual reality  about  this  era. The World  is  full  of  so much mischief/fraud  people. many times  person   took the  decision  thinking that,   in that  book that  great  disciple  of that  great divine   one does that   so I  do the same. resultant  can be   very  disappointing   one.  So  donot  copy  others  even though  how  higher  they  are .

20.  specially   girls  or  woman if  they   are  interested  to move  in this path, they  need  to be extra  careful.  Never  compromise  any  things/act  that is not accepted/advocated  by the society or moral or legal institution. Never accept any behavior that is below  the  dignity of  you. in the name of  sadhana  various  stories comes every days  so  you should  be very very careful otherwise instead of  some  divine joy,  your  are  having tears  of pains. many  such a  stories,  we  all  are  already  aware  of.

21. how a disciple  and  guru  relationship   workes,  there  are  so  many good  books  in the market kindly  read  first , have  a  good   impression of that  but  not  to copy .or  having   impression that  the  same  things  will be  repeated   to you.  Every   true  divine  personality has his   own  set  of rules  or way to test  his disciples. so  read   some  good   books  and  if have  time    read   some  materials  how  person is  being  cheated  by others  in the  name  of sadhana.

22.so   move  in the path divine  with  open  heart  and  mind  and  every time   you  have  to be  very careful because   sometimes  life  never  gives  you  another  chance. 

I thinks  following  point  helpful  for  you  to  have  a  divine  one i.e.  guru.  In coming post,  whenever I  will have  time  we  will discuss  more.

I am asking  your  forgiveness  if  something  offend  you.

Have a  nice  day.